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How to Spice Up Your Sex Life

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How to Spice Up Your Sex Life

Title: How To Spice Up Your Sex Life

A relationship can change constantly. One day you’re elated, the next you’re at rock bottom. While you certainly hope you spend more time on the happier end of the spectrum, there are certainly some lows and frankly, that’s what makes a relationship so great. If we didn’t have the bad to outweigh the good some times, we wouldn’t know what we truly had. However, we can always work on what may be bringing us down to try to mitigate the lows. Our sex lives can be a major factor in our level of satisfaction–especially if it’s become boring or non-existent. If that’s the case, it’s time to take your sex life and relationship into your own hands and try to get your bedroom fun back to the level it once was. Check out some of these ways you can make your sex life fun again.

Role playing can be a really great way to step outside of yourself and the sexual boundaries that you and your partner may have formed over the years. Role playing is when the two of you take on the persona of a character or incorporate a theme into your love making, such as a student and teach role playing or even being a dom and sub (like Fifty Shades of Grey). You can use role playing to approach sex differently, whether you move sex from the bedroom to somewhere else, incorporate dirty talk (very important in role playing) or just try new positions and moves that you’ve never done before. And since you’re “someone else,” it’s much easier to let go of some of your inhibitions.

You can also try watching porn with your partner. This is a great way to get the two of you in the mood and to expose you to new ideas in the bedroom–you could totally use this inspiration to influence your role playing! If you’re both new to porn, I recommend looking for something a little more soft core and to look for a video that includes some things you’ve never tried before. This way you can see it acted out before you and then you try to reenact it yourself.

Change your wardrobe! It’s so easy to fall into this routine of always wearing sweats to bed or nothing at all, but what about trying some sexy lingerie. Slip into something that makes you feel confident and beautiful and something that your partner would find utterly sexy. Surprise them when they are watching tv, when they come home from work or ever as you’re heading to bed. They’ll immediately get the hint!

You could also try incorporating sex toys. You could go small with a simple cock ring or bullet vibrator or you could go big and get a sex swing. If you’ve already experimented with toys, I recommend erring on the bigger side. Either way, introducing something new like this is sure fire way to spice things up. Head over to and pick something out you and your partner can enjoy. Think they’ll be a little reticent? Explore the toy options together so they feel a little more comfortable with the idea.

Want to make a big change? Try having a threesome. It seems bold, maybe a little too much, but it can be really wonderful if done with the right person in the right context. You will need to have a very solid foundation in your own relationship and have virtually no jealousy issues. It will also require a lot of communication before, during and after the event to ensure that no feelings were hurt and that everyone is satisfied. Check out this guide on how to get started.

Finally, you could hire an erotic dancer for you and your partner. This is a great way to actually ease into having a threesome without having one. An erotic dancer can help turn the two of you on, bring out your sexual side and just be a good form of entertainment to kick start your night of fun. Wanna book one? Head over to our contact page.

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